4 Changes in your life after the baby

Hi Ladies

I think this happens to everyone. This is something that every girl ask me before getting married and I smile only.

So What you think it affects or not? or affects too much or a little? 

Guys, it will affect too too toooooooo much. It doesn't matter you did love marriage or arranged marriage. Trust me you become a different person what you were before.



You love your baby like no one can. And you realize how much your parents did for you. You become very responsible and somehow become very mature.

Your appearance
Motherhood gives you many things that you can't even think now. You can't do makeup, you will be seen only in buns and pony. I will share what I do for quick makeup and hairstyle.

Your skincare routines to get affected. Forget about all skincare haircare styles for new mommies only. This will get back only after one year I guess.


Your love life
It becomes very boring and boring. You guys only think and talk about how baby sleep and smile and many things that are magical you know I even cant explain.

The love of your life only focused on baby and only baby for some time. You even forget how to get intimate with your partner seriously. 

This phase not only boring for women but also for men too. No, I think for men it becomes more boring than women.

Your Day Routine
Your routine will be affected a lot and lot. There are certain things you do now but will be affected by the baby. Bath, yeah I really love bathing for at least 20 mins but now it seems like I just do a routine work of shower in 5-10 mins only. You can understand how it is going now. Sleep, uuuhhh this is my favorite thing, I miss my sleep a lot.

Outing
After baby, you will feel like a prisoner for some time. Even I celebrated this new year eve while watching Film-fare shows and comedy on TV. You can dine out with friends only for two to three hrs not more than that. Baby needs space and attention of yours all the time and that becomes impossible going out.

See guys I am not here to scare you all but this is all true you can see new mommies and new daddies around. But what you can't see is the magic behind all the things you do in that phase.

If unconditional love is the true things in this world you can feel that love only if you have your own baby. watching your baby smile while sleeping, breastfeeding, their beautiful eyes, tiny hands fingers and each and everything you can't even imagine before unless you have yours.

Thank You.




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22 comments

  1. Having a baby sure does change things! My kids are now grown, and I can honestly say that the only reason my husband and I are still close is because we worked really, really hard to focus on us from time to time through all those busy kid years.

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  2. It really does change a lot my son is four and I still don't know what going out is and I have learnt to accept it and just work out a new routine that will suit my new lifestyle.

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  3. Having a baby is such a massive change you can't expect your life to go back to what it used to be. But that's another adventure starting! I guess, when you know about all of this, you can try to not fall into a routine and better prepare

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  4. Just another adventure in the journey. It's a huge change, but change is what creates our future.

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  5. Yup, there are changes, that's for sure. I did feel like a prisoner for a while. But I made sure I always had me time.

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  6. This is all true! I think every new mom should read this because with my first i was a little naive and didn’t realize what a huge life shift having a child would be! It’s important to find your groove as a Mom while still maintains your personal identity and relationship with your spouse/ significant other.

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  7. I can only imagine the changes that happen when you have a child for both Mum and Dad it must be such a different life.

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  8. As a daddy to two young kids I can definitely say that my life had changed forever. Some are good, while others are not so good. It's all part of the life cycle. Just try to enjoy as much as you can. Before you go crazy, take a break here and there lol.

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  9. Yes, more changes happen then you can even imagine. It's funny before you have kids you have no idea what's really instore. It becomes a juggling act. Making yourself happy, kids happy, spouse happy. Then making time for everyone and yourself is time consuming too.

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  10. Babies do make a huge change in your life. But sacrificing now for raising a future successful adult is a good payoff. I know: I raised 3 amazing kids.

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  11. This is so true...Baby takes over completely. However, I still make a point out of doing my hair, makeup and all that girlie stuff. It's all about scheduling to me. Besides, we can look good with buns, ponytails and minimal makeup too. We are superwomen!!!! Yasss!!! (staying positive here ha ha)

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  12. Baby runs your life...in the most beautiful and crazy ways possible!! thanks for sharing.

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  13. Having a baby changes your whole world. All of these points are so true. I would not trade it in for the world.

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  14. Having a little one is such a special time. And as a mother, believe me, time flies by super fast. Before you know it your tiny one will be in preschool, kindergarten and then graduating from high school. Soak in every moment!

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  15. I think you become stronger and more patient after having a baby. You also put your baby first before yourself. You become selfless.

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  16. So true, life totally changes and everything becomes about the baby! It’s a new stage of life and it’s a better experience to have than not to have!

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  17. I agree partly with what you are saying, having a baby does change things in your relationship but for us it was better. Okay yes, less make up and more pony tails is definitely true the first year of your babies life but the intimacy never really changed, if anything we had even more time and lvoe for each other because of this perfect little human we created and all the problems we went through together brought us closer.

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  18. I couldn't agree more! I have seen this happen to my sister. lol! I take care of my niece and feels like a prisoner at home.

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  19. Now I know what to expect! A lot of my friends are getting pregnant now, and they are all under the impression that it won't change things too much!

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  20. My third-born is 8 weeks now. It took us about 4 weeks to get back into a new routine. Having a baby sure changes things!

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  21. My baby is about to be 3 months old and our lives have changed completely once she has come... Loads of adventures and getting to know the baby better :D...

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  22. The sleep would also bother me but looking into the little baby's eye I guess makes it all worthwhile.

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