2018 updated Parenting rules: Must Read By Mom & Dad



My daughter is 18 months old and she clearly says everything now that usually can't be seen in her age group now. There are some things that you can do to increase the brain development.

The way you do the way you say the way you appear everything affects your baby and it will come in attitude appearance manners and all.

And yes the way you think and feel during pregnancy affects your baby after a baby comes out. I actually listened to music a lot when my baby was inside me and now every time she hears any music and she starts dancing in her way.

Now you have to be careful about what you are doing how you are doing and how you communicate with everyone how you eat and how you do each and everything. Baby watch everything you do and try to adapt and say and eat the way do.

You have to think before you act anything in front of your baby. They actually look very casual but they watch everything very carefully and want to do the same way you do.

So there are few things I want to share here 

DON'T SAY NO & DON'T
You always want everything positive with your baby. Everything means the way they think the way they do so yes everything. Then you should control your words, that should be very very positive always. Try to avoid NO and DON'T from your dictionary. You can use words DO THIS INSTEAD OF THIS.

Yeah, you can understand I think. See friends these words are negative and their effect also will be negative. You should make your baby happy and positive by engaging them in positive ways.

These words can affect your baby guys.

You should start this from the day your baby born. It takes some time to work on yourself and to control your emotions and anger and some command on how to say only positive words.

If your baby is just messing up your home Guys relax yourself you are not alone. Every house has to go through the phase when it has childhood it has fun and mess too.

Enjoy this mess because after some years your house will be perfectly organized. So enjoy it. And make your baby trained from the very first day to put the things in the perfect place. That will become their habit. Make yourself calm every time.


Don't Shout 
The way you treat your baby they will treat you in the same way, mark my words. They learn to shout from you and They don't feel bad after they shout at you. DON'T SHOUT but you can say, baby, this is the wrong thing, you can do it right in this way.

This is not easy but this will make your baby a happy person wherever they go they spread only positivity. People want to be with them. That can happen only when you become a happening and fun loving person.

Enjoy their childhood, live every bit of it, it will never come again. This is the best moments of your life don't spoil just for the messy house or some things your baby do wrong. That is the thing why people say the First school for your baby is Home.

Primary education starts from the home from parents. This becomes base for your baby's life. Like we do first base in makeup if a base is not right your full makeup will not look effective. 

Baby needs both of the parents equally

These people think the baby needs only their mother than father. I personally think the baby needs both of the parents equally. First thing You both should give respect in front of your baby if you don't give otherwise.

My hubby did even massage sometimes. Father should massage also, that way baby connects with you like moms. Sometimes give a bath to your baby, diaper change, feed your baby like moms. It will feel you awesome I must say. My hubby did all you can too.

Apologize to your baby
You should be sorry every time you hurt your baby intentionally or unintentionally doesn't matter. That will be very helpful for you to become a friend.

Sometimes you can't avoid shouting or irrigation then you say sorry to your little one. They can understand and learn to apologize.

Keep in mind these things and raise your baby in a way that becomes an inspiration for everyone. That is the key to making this world happy and positive. But don't try to change everyone change yourself first, The world will change on its own.
Thank You



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15 comments

  1. Being a parent is challeng and i understand that feeling of pressure. Yeah we adults should be the role model of these youngs for their good growth.

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    1. Agree ...Thank you
      What are the things you do at your level regarding the same

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  2. This is all so true! It is really important that we make sure that we understand that our kids will always act like our mirrors.

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    1. Yes we should understand...
      Kids are our reflection...
      Thank you

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  3. Motherhood is an ever changing balance!

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  4. Love your suggestion that you treat your baby the way you want them to treat you. Seems practical as then you don't need to change your communication style as they grow up ...

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  5. I like your positive attitude in raising children. I totally agree with you :)

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  6. Yeah, these are some really good points! They totally soak in the way you act around them, more than many people realize. When I worked at a daycare, we never used words like "no" and "don't". But I use them at home. I don't yell or act mean about it, but I DO tell my son no. I know it will bite me in the butt when he starts saying no to everything, but honestly, it's so exhausting having to put a sweet twist on everything every time they do something they shouldn't be. I try to explain things too. Instead of simply saying "No, get down", I'll say "Please put your feet on the floor". But yeah, I'd be lying if I said I didn't tell him no.

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    1. Yeah I agree with you...it happens. Many times we just so exhausted to follow these rules. But I can say we should follow as much it is possible

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  7. These are some great tips. Being a parent is a huge responsibility. They do everything you do and want to be just like you.

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    1. Thanks dear...
      Yes it is a great responsibility, and in this way it becomes more challenging.

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  8. I don't agree with not saying no and not shouting. I think being firm with a child is what leads them to be raised properly. Being too soft provides too much leeway

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